I am currently involved in a long distance relationship with a guy I met when I was 15. I'm now 32 and he is the only man I have ever been with. He decided to move away to further his studies last year. At first I was disappointed because I thought it was due time for us to get married but he assured me that it was best to wait and set himself up to provide a good life for me and our future family.
Since he has been gone, I have been hanging out with my friends to help me cope with missing him. I guess his friends have been telling him that I'm out a lot more and have been commenting on how nice I look. At first, he was okay with it but now he has become jealous and now questions my every move. He has even tried to tell me that I wasn't allowed to go out. Now, our relationship is just argument on top of argument.
The last time I went out I met a guy and I decided to dance with him. After all, it's just a dance and that can't hurt anything. I ended up dancing with him the whole night and when I was ready to leave he walked me to my car and asked to have my number. I gave it to him and we have gone out a few times since. I told him about my relationship and he is okay with that too. He said he believes we met for a reason and that what is meant to be will be. I agree.
Now, I can't get this new guy out my head. I wait anxiously for his calls and texts and I get excited when it's time to see him. I feel like a young girl again and I wish this relationship could move to the next level.
I still love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him after all these years but this new guy has awakened something in me and I feel like he just may be worth it.
Should I leave my boyfriend for him?
Signed,
Alive Again
Dear AA,
ReplyDeletePut thought into it and make your decision.
You have been with your boyfriend for over a decade and he's the only man you have ever experienced. You don't know if what you have is what's best. How does he make you feel? Are you genuinely happy?
This new man may be new and exciting but what does he have to offer you as far as stability is concerned? Does he have the same thoughts and ideas as you do as far as family is concerned? Maybe none of this is an issue for you and you just want to let go and enjoy this new experience.
Only you know what you really want and what will be best for you and your life.
Make your decision knowing that you will have to live with it.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
New man got u going !!! Be careful... new broom sweep clean but ole broom know all di corna !
ReplyDelete