Dear WISY,
I have a problem I have been dealing with for a long time and I have no idea how to make it disappear!
When I lost my virginity at the age of 20 (I'm now 25), I instantly became addicted to sex. I love sex! I think about it all the time (no exaggeration). I have multiple friends with benefits to make sure I can get sex when I want it. I love everything about sex - the way it feels, the sounds, the smell, the look of the male body. I can't begin to explain how much I love it.
I do recognize the damage it's having on my life though. I am constantly distracted by the thought of having sex. I have crossed the line with my co-workers and I have even had sex with my boss a few times. So, I approached a new guy about hooking up and he reported me for sexual harassment. Now, I'm facing termination and humiliation even though it was just one time that I asked him. This new guy came and messed everything up. I've been with most of my male co-workers without any problems and now this.
The bottom line is, I know I need to conquer this addiction before it completely ruins my life. Please help! Where do I start???
P.S. Thank you for following me otherwise I would have never known about your page and your services.
Signed,
Addicted
WISY's Response:
Dear Addicted,
Yup! It's time to get this addiction under control! Sometimes hard lessons are sent to enforce a hard stop and force us to wake up and change our destructive behaviors. This is your time for that type of lesson.
You need to see a therapist, particularly one who specializes in addiction. I've heard that hypnotherapy is great for this type of therapy as well. I think it's a good idea to find another place of employment as well. All the people you have been involved with will only be a distraction. They may approach you for more and you may be tempted to provide. Also, if you haven't already, please apologize to the new guy. Don't assume that he's not traumatized by what you did because he's a man.
I wish you all the best with this. This is not an easy journey. Be realistic with yourself, hold yourself accountable and remove all distractions. Delete numbers, block accounts, perform a yoni steam or two - do what you must! Sending you healing vibes!
Walk good,
#TeamWIsy
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