Dear WISY,
This is awful and I know it but sometimes loves drives us to do the unthinkable. I have been in a secret relationship with my mother’s boyfriend for the past two years. She thinks he’s still around because he loves her but in fact it is me that he loves and I love him. When she is away for work, he and I have the most fun in the house and do whatever we want, wherever we want to do it. It’s exciting and now I want to have him all to myself. I can’t stand it when he is locked away in her room for hours. I hate that he sleeps with her at night and I hate that he kisses her in front of me.
I am willing to risk the relationship with my mother for this man. He is just that great but I know how heart broken she will be and I can’t live with that. If she didn’t love him the way she does, I would take him but she is truly in love and I know how damaged she would be if I took him.
I’m ready to move out to try to keep my mind off of him and when I expressed this to him, he threatened me and said I could never leave him.
What should I do?
Signed,
In Love with Mamma's Man