I am in a position and I know what I should do but I can't bring myself to do it because my heart has clouded my judgment. I'm head over heels in love with someone who isn't right for me and I'm being pursued by someone who is doing everything right and would make the perfect life long partner.
I can't explain how I feel about Guy #1. What I feel can't be put into words. It's like there is a force that pulls me to him. He has expressed his feelings towards me and they are identical to mine but for some reason we always have conflict.
Guy #2 is sweet, caring and pays close attention to me to determine my likes and dislikes. He has his flaws but is willing to work to become a better person so that we can have a solid relationship and bright future. I respect him for that and I care about him but I don't love him.
Why is it that I can't love the right one? Should I ignore my feelings for #1 and move forward with #2? Do you think the feelings will subside for #1 and increase for #2 if I do this? I need your input.
Thank you.
Signed,
Which One?
Dear Which One,
ReplyDeleteI suggest you step back from both men and let yourself have time with your thoughts. Determine what you really want in a man. Be sure to consider the future and all your goals and dreams. Which one will fit better with the future you?
Sometimes we can confuse love with other emotions. If you and Guy #1 were mutually in love with each other, would there be so much conflict? Take the time to think. Don’t be too hasty in making your decision and think about who will bring out the best in you. It could be #1, it could be #2 or it could be neither.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
choose number 2.
ReplyDeleteGive #2 a chance.
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