Is My Husband Living a Double Life?

Dear WISY,

I received a disturbing call from an unknown number stating that my husband is living a double life.  My husband is a highly regarded man of the community and condemns the lifestyle he accused of secretly leading.  I do not want to believe it but the person is claiming to be my husband's male lover.  He was very convincing and spoke of my husband's body in a way that only I should. 

To be quite honest, I have noticed my husband's absence both emotionally and physically.  I have noticed some changes in him that are hints that he is interested in male companionship.  My husband and I haven't been intimate in almost a year and I can't help but think that I have contributed to my husband seeking comfort elsewhere.  Why he is seeking it with another male is puzzling to say the least.

I have since been consumed with the information that was delivered.   I am unable to concentrate on work and I have lost my appetite.  I can barely look my husband in the face.  I am overwhelmed with the feeling that my husband is an undercover homosexual and I am dying to ask him about it but am afraid of the consequences.  I am thinking of hiring a private investigator to trail him and uncover the truth before I accuse him of anything.

What are your thoughts?  Please help!  I am losing my mind!

Signed,

Disturbed Wife

                     

My Clothes Are Worth More Than My Rent

Dear WISY,

A few months ago me and a few of my friends went into a store and stole some items to wear to a party.  This is something we do a lot because we need to always be fashion forward.  Trust me when I say the clothes and shoes we wear to these parties are worth more than our monthly rent but we don't care.  Fashion over everything, wi seh!

On this occasion, a few months ago, we were caught on camera and there have been posters posted with our images on them asking for information.  When I saw this, I got scared and turned myself in.  I tried lie and tell them I wasn't stealing but they didn't believe me.  The detectives asked me about the other girls but I told them I didn't know them because I'm no informer.  

Long story short, I was fined and given 30 days probation.  My friends are now calling me idiot and all kinds of names and are saying they do not want to be seen with me anymore.  I feel like reporting their names after all.  I find them to be ungrateful!

What should I do?

Signed,
Fashion Diva