Am I the only one who thinks that women are way too hard on each other? We fight and bring each other down and we fail to see that if we work together we could dominate this world. I've heard that statistics say that there is a man shortage and because of this women settle for less than ideal relationships. We become extremely territorial and when we find our men stepping out on us we even allow our them to sleep with other women as long as they come home at night.
I try my hardest not to get pulled into such a mindset but I've been finding it increasingly more difficult to avoid the ignorance. I am dating a guy who I know is involved with someone else. He doesn't admit it but I know he is cheating. The other woman called me a few times to inform me of their relationship and instead of arguing with her like she wanted me to, I just said "ok, no problem.". I am determined not to fight with her. I want her to realize that he is JUST A MAN and not worth the fuss.
I don't want to leave him though. He is everything I've ever asked for and I think that he just might realize that he need not look elsewhere for fulfillment and then our relationship can move on to the next level.
Am I delusional?
Signed,
Tolerance
"Am I delusional?" Yes X2.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all - who is this "we" you keep talking about? Some of us are not territorial when it comes to men and we do NOT sanction them cheating on us. (WTF?)
If this man is "everything" you asked for, you don't ask for much. You should ask for a man who is faithful. (Duh)
If he is already cheating on you, at what point will he realize "he need not look elsewhere for fulfillment", when he banging Big Sally from behind?
Please wake the hell up and move on. (I mean that in the sincerest of ways.)
My girl...the type of unity in womanhood u are suggesting is not what you are talking about here. i was with u until u start talkin bout ur man being with someone else and u refuse to argue because u believe in women sticking together. is two slap u want to wake u up !! u r a dam fool and if this is the kind of unity women should be striving for then keep me FAR!
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