Tuesday, June 11, 2013

After Dark

Dear WISY,

I am a very successful lady but my success comes with stigma.  By day, I am a stay at home mom with a husband and two gorgeous children.  At night, I dance at a club across the state line.  Nobody knows about my night life activities.  My husband works at night and I hire a babysitter to watch the children until I get back.  

I started dancing after a friend of mine suggested it when I complained that things were tight as far as money was concerned.  I gave it a shot and I've been dancing three nights out of the week.  This has been going on for almost two years now.  I have gotten expensive gifts and more money than I know what to do with.  I've had trouble hiding these things from my husband but I am comforted by this blanket of money sitting in a separate account in case things get tough again.

Now that I have more than enough money, I have considered quitting the dance scene but I have grown to love it.  Every time I go, I say this is my last night but by the end of my set, I am so high off of the attention that I can't see my self leaving.

I would just like to get some opinions on what you would do if in this situation.

Thanks.

Signed,
After Dark

                                                                                                      

9 comments:

  1. Enjoy yourself! If your man doesn't have an issue with it, you shouldn't either.

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    1. I am but i don;t think my husband would b to happy about me dancing for other guys for money.

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  2. Why are you hiding this from your husband??

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    1. because he against this kind of things.

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    2. If you have to hide that means u know you are doing something wrong.... maybe u should quit wile u still ahead.

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    3. I agree. If you cannot live your life out loud in the daylight, then you are living a lie.

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  3. The solution for this is simple...STOP! Your husband is against it but ur still risking it???? u know what? You should get a divorce and let your inner slut be free!

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