Dear WISY,
I'm in a relationship and
I truly love my boyfriend but lately I have been thinking and even having
dreams about another guy whom I used to like so much. When I talk to him he makes me feel extremely
special. My boyfriend is a good man but
he’s not very affectionate and I have gotten used to it. I'm thinking about this other guy constantly
and even would love to see him but I’m fighting the feeling since I really don’t
want to hurt my boyfriend. How should I
get over this feeling? Just the sound of
this other guy’s voice turns me on (sigh).
I feel guilty although I did
nothing wrong...well at least not yet!
Signed,
Confused!
Dear Confusionated,
ReplyDeleteIf you want to continue on with the good man that you say your boyfriend is, you must find a way to get this other man out of your system. Continue to fight the temptation to do anything wrong that would jeopardize your relationship. In the end, it will not be worth it.
Cut off communication with him and let him continue to be the guy you “used to like.” Do not try to bring your past into your present or your future will suffer for it.
Walk Good,
#Team WISY
How has this been going 4 u?I am also in a situation that is not ideal..I love him but I am not fulfilled.Read my letter about my man been boring. I will apprecaite the advise.
ReplyDeletewisy did not answer me. :(
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