--The content of this letter may be disturbing to some readers, read at your own risk.--
I am married to a man who has a very weird sense of what sexy is. I did not know he was like this before I married him and now he is revealing his true self.
He only wants to be intimate with me when I'm on my monthly cycle. I have tried everything to turn him off from it but he refuses to stop. When I'm on my monthly cycle, being intimate is the last thing on my mind. I always have cramps and I feel so bloated. I don't understand what it is that turns him on. He behaves like a wolf on the hunt for its prey and sniffs the air like an animal. Then he pounces on me and whispers the word "blood" over and over until he climaxes.
I'm slowly falling out of love with him because of this. He is not the man I married. I have confided in a friend and she told me that I was being unreasonable. What is your opinion on this?
Signed,
Disgusted
Disgusted,
ReplyDeleteFirst off, I edited your letter's content to eliminate some of the graphic imagery illustrated.
Personally, I don't believe in being involved with anything that you are opposed to. If you have expressed your disgust with your husband and he refuses to change then I would consider separation. As a woman, I understand how this could turn you off from your husband.
Talk to him again and let him know that you are considering divorce and see what his response is. Be prepared for him to reply with a compromise and not a certain end to his behavior. He may very well say that you should love him enough to give him what he wants. I recommend seeing a marriage counselor to help you through this process.
Only you know what you can tolerate and at the end of the day, you have to live with your decision.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
You may need to seek couples counseling on how to cope, but thats not a reason to divorce.
ReplyDeletethats rough tho.... so you re saying before you got married he wasnt like that? maybe you guys really need to see a councellor. weird!
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