I'm writing to ask some advice about my friend. Please post this letter to your blog.
One of my best friends has converted to a religion where they do not believe in using modern products. He has let his hair grow out on his face and on his head. He has become a vegan and grows his own food but what bothers me is the fact that he doesn't use toothpaste or deodorant anymore. He smells so bad that I don't even want to visit him anymore.
I feel terrible because I grew up with him and he still wants the relationship to remain the same but I cannot tolerate the smell. I asked why he doesn't use an all natural deodorant and toothpaste and he told me that I am only offended by his smell because society has been brainwashed to dislike their natural selves - odors and all. I can understand his perspective but it doesn't change the fact that I gag when I smell him.
What should I do? He is my children's Godfather and he has always been around. We all love him dearly but it is so hard to be around him. I'm considering ending the friendship. Am I being too harsh? I might get used to his smell in time but as of right now, it makes me sick and leaves me with a terrible headache.
Any suggestions?
Signed,
Sick of My Friend
Wow, this is a tough one. He's your long time friend and such a drastic change will definitely strain your relationship.
ReplyDeleteThe best advice I could give is to respect his decisions but keep the headache medicine on deck and continue to visit him. Maybe if he sees you're actually getting sick from his odor, he'll try a natural alternative. Hopefully you two can come to a happy compromise.
Walk good,
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