Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Love in the Shadows

Dear WISY,

Four years ago, I got involved with someone and I'm still involved with that person today.  I love them with everything I have but I am afraid to let people know about the relationship.  I come from a place where people are less understanding about these things and I know for a fact that people have been hurt or even killed for revealing this type of relationship.

I'm now being pressured by this person to be truthful about our relationship.  I don't think I have the guts to do it.  I could lose everything I have if I did.  This person has asked me to move to another country where we can be free to love each other but I am terrified.  All I know is what I see around me.  And I know that what I am involved in is wrong by the standards around here.

I really need some words of wisdom.  I am tired of living a lie and I am terrified of revealing the truth.  This is no kind of way to live.  Please help.

Signed,
Love in the Shadows

9 comments:

  1. "I am tired of living a lie and I am terrified of revealing the truth. This is no kind of way to live." << You're absolutely right. That is no kind of way to live! Make a choice and own it. If your location is a dangerous one then you need to leave. Why would you subject yourself to being anything else but happy? To me, the choice is clear; get out and live your life HAPPILY!

    Walk good,
    #TeamWISY

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    1. Is that necessary?

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    2. yah promote di nastiness!

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    3. I hope your life is squeaky clean and free of secrets. How are you so sure this is a homosexual relationship anyway?

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  3. Honey, I can only imagine what sort of relationship you are engaged in, but I will agree with TeamWISY on this one. Life is far too short to be unhappy for most of it. However, if what you are engaged in is injurious or hurtful in any way, shape, or form, remember harvest time always comes on time.

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  4. WISY, stop promote slackness - yuh nuh si seh a 2 fambly memba inna relationship?

    http://mixupyaad.com/weird-mixup/shocking-40-year-old-mother-who-is-sleeping-with-her-son-is-now-pregnant-for-him-and-wants-to-marry-him?fb_comment_id=fbc_330158517112379_1629016_330331427095088#f3ddcbda64

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    1. Good Morning AnonyMouse, I'm pretty sure this is not the case.

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    2. who are you to judge tho??? "rolls eyes"

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