Dear WISY,
I am in a relationship
with a very respectable, stand-up guy.
He is everything your mother tells you to marry. He has a great job with limitless growth
potential, a home of his own and a nice car.
Material things aside, he is also a very nice guy. He’s just perfect and that’s the
problem. I’m bored with him.
I’ve suggested that we do
things to spice things up a bit but he turns me down each time and tells me
that the things I want aren’t lady like and he wouldn’t want his woman doing
those sorts of things. When I discuss my
wants with my close friends they tell me that it’s nothing out of the ordinary,
so why does he not want me to do these things?
Why is he so damn uptight?
Everyday it’s the same
routine and I’m about to lose my mind. He
even makes love to me in the same manner each time. And I’m supposed to want “this” for the rest
of my life? I keep hearing my mother
tell me that I will adjust and in the long run I will be glad that I stuck with
him. I’m not so sure about that.
Should I stay or should I
go?
Signed,
Bored
ques..is there a big age difference involved here? or are u guys close in age
ReplyDeletewe are almost 10 yrs apart.
DeleteThe grass is not greener on the other side. Its green where you water it. Try once more for the road; come to a meeting of the minds before you walk away.
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