The Temptation is too Strong

Dear WISY,

I don't usually write to advice columns, but I am in need of some help.  I will try to make a long story short.  Here goes...

I broke up with my boyfriend about a year ago.  After I broke up with him, I was feeling really insecure about myself and I ended up talking to my Aunt's boyfriend about it because we were all over at my mom's house for dinner.  Anyway, I told him how I was feeling and he started to shower me with compliments.  I don't know how this happened, but I ended up kissing him.  So, now I'm having an affair with my favorite Aunt's man.

He is a good looking guy - anybody would fall for his charm.  I feel like he knew I was vulnerable and he wanted to kiss me.  He didn't fight me when I kissed him.  Instead, he rubbed up on me.  It felt good to me because it's been a while since I've had a man touch my body.  I know it's wrong what we did, but we can't seem to stop seeing each other.  It's been some months and we've had sexual contact every day since the kiss.  I forgot to mention that he is closer to my age than to my Aunt's age.

The other day, my mom confided in me that her sister (my aunt) is feeling suspicious about her man cheating.  She said my aunt is snooping and will get to the bottom of it because that's how she is.  She's like the FBI.  I'm afraid that she will find out what happened between me and her man.  I told him what was going on and he's not worried about it.  He said he covers his tracks, has passwords on everything, and deletes all our conversations. I told him that we need to chill for a bit, but he keeps coming over and I can't resist him.

I need some help with this situation because I KNOW I'm wrong.  The temptation is too strong.  How do I overcome it?

Signed,
Tempted

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WISY's Advice:

Dear Tempted,

Cut it off immediately.  You shouldn't be rebounding with someone who is intimate with your aunt.  Doesn't that gross you out?!  If that isn't enough, you know you will probably get caught since your aunt is "like the FBI".  You will hurt her immensely if she finds out!  Plus, a man who is sleeping with his woman's niece is morally flawed.  Is that enough to get you to close the door on this situation?

Like you said, you know you're wrong. Let your sensibility reign and disregard the messages of lust from your body.  Or at least direct them toward someone else.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY