Wednesday, February 6, 2019

She Just Up and Left Me!

Dear WISY,

I don’t know how to start this so I'm going to go back to the end of my last relationship. My ex wife and I divorced after 12 years of marriage because she was cheating on me. It really bothered me bad so I went about 19 months not seeing any one. I stayed single. I didn’t go out for random hookups or anything. So, after about 19 months I still wasn’t looking but I had someone - by accident really. 

She turned out to be everything I was ever looking for in a woman/relationship. She was absolutely amazing!!! We dated for about 4 months and I had made up my mind that I was ready to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her. 

Two days before Christmas she just ups and leaves me with no explanation at all. She won’t return my phone calls or my texts. There's absolutely no communication whatsoever.  I don’t know what to do.  I want her back but I can’t get her to talk with me. Of course she is dealing with some family issues and I was always there by her side supporting her because that’s what you do in relationship. 

Please tell me should I continue trying to get her or should I just let this be another life lesson and move on? 

Signed, 
Confused 
WISY's Advice:

Dear Confused,

A person who just up and leaves a relationship with no explanation was never really invested in the first place.  Something or someone may have come along and grabbed her attention.  This issue or person was probably in the picture before you and she may have been using her relationship with you as a distraction.  Once things improved with the person or situation, she went running back to it.

My best advice to you is to move on.  You don't need someone who displays such instability and immaturity.  Her silence speaks volumes.  It's tough, but in time, you will be alright.  And please, whatever you do, don't blame yourself!  You didn't do anything wrong and there isn't anything wrong with you.  Your love story doesn't end here.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY


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