Dear WISY,
I am twenty-two, in college (senior), and I have an older man who helps me out financially. I came to college without any support from my family. In fact, I'm the first to go to college, and I was discouraged by my family to come here. I honestly have nothing in common with my family. I feel like an outsider all the time. I made sure I had good grades in high school to get accepted to a good college away from home.
Shortly after my sophomore year started, I met this guy. He's wealthy and made me an offer I couldn't refuse. He's married with a family, but been taking good care of me ever since. I will have no debt when I graduate and I will have a home to call my own with a new car as my graduation gift. He's been really good to me.
I met this guy around my age a few weeks ago. He is amazing! I've slept with him on numerous occasions, we go out and party, we talk about our lives, we talk about our past, we are inseparable right now. I feel bad for lying to him when I have to go see my older guy, but I can't leave my older guy until I finish school. I know that sounds bad, but I need his help.
Somehow, my older guy has found out about the new guy. He told me to leave him or he will cut me off, but my new guy wants to make it official. I keep delaying the conversation, but I know that he's going to put the pressure on me soon. How do I make this work? I wish this new guy came into my life after the spring!
Signed,
Sugar Baby
Dear Sugar Baby,
I think you already know that "making it work" is not realistic. You have to decide which is worth more to you. Is financial stability and gifts without true happiness with your companion worth more than genuine love and happiness?
I don't think it's such a bad idea to build something genuine and begin to make things happen for yourself instead of relying on your sugar daddy. I think you're capable of making moves on your own. You proved that when you ventured out and made it to college without the support of your family.
I hope you can live in your truth sooner than later.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Shortly after my sophomore year started, I met this guy. He's wealthy and made me an offer I couldn't refuse. He's married with a family, but been taking good care of me ever since. I will have no debt when I graduate and I will have a home to call my own with a new car as my graduation gift. He's been really good to me.
I met this guy around my age a few weeks ago. He is amazing! I've slept with him on numerous occasions, we go out and party, we talk about our lives, we talk about our past, we are inseparable right now. I feel bad for lying to him when I have to go see my older guy, but I can't leave my older guy until I finish school. I know that sounds bad, but I need his help.
Somehow, my older guy has found out about the new guy. He told me to leave him or he will cut me off, but my new guy wants to make it official. I keep delaying the conversation, but I know that he's going to put the pressure on me soon. How do I make this work? I wish this new guy came into my life after the spring!
Signed,
Sugar Baby
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WISY's Response:
Dear Sugar Baby,
I think you already know that "making it work" is not realistic. You have to decide which is worth more to you. Is financial stability and gifts without true happiness with your companion worth more than genuine love and happiness?
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I don't think it's such a bad idea to build something genuine and begin to make things happen for yourself instead of relying on your sugar daddy. I think you're capable of making moves on your own. You proved that when you ventured out and made it to college without the support of your family.
I hope you can live in your truth sooner than later.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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