My girlfriend just broke up with me. We were together for almost a year. We met while on a business trip and we hit it off immediately. I moved to her city to be with her. I did this even though my family told me it wasn't a good idea. I fell hard for her. I was following my heart and I was about to propose to her on Christmas day, but now she's gone.
I asked her what the problem was and she told me that she's tired of me being too "perfect". She said that I don't excite her like the guys she's used to dating. She said that I'm not hood enough for her. We are both Ivy League graduates with careers that have nothing to do with being thug. She never showed me that side of her and all of a sudden she hits me with this.
This hit me hard, but I'll be okay. I just want to know if I should ask her for half of my moving costs? She's the one who convinced me to move out here and promised a future together.
Signed,
Too Perfect
WISY's Advice:
Dear Too Perfect,
Sure, you can ask for half of the moving costs, but the real question is - will she give it to you? In my opinion, I think you should just cut your losses and move on. Asking for that money could potentially subject you to drama and ridicule which could affect you negatively. If you feel strongly about this, then go ahead and ask, but remember you're not entitled to it. If you were married, you could possibly get a court ordered payment, but that's not the case here.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Where is he I'll take him. Lol
ReplyDelete