He's Too Big

Dear WISY,

My man is too big.  He hurts me every time we make love, and I have never been satisfied by him penetrating me.  He always has to kiss the 😻 to get me to to climax.  I feel like I need him to make me climax from the 🍆.  I would like to be surprised by it for once.  

What should I do?

Signed,
Too Big

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WISY's Response:

Dear Too Big,

You're going to have to take more control during intercourse.  Communicate with your partner and tell him which positions work for you and which ones cause discomfort.  I'm sure he'd love to please you in every way possible, you just need to guide him.

Here are some helpful resources:

Sex Positions: Best Mind-Blowing Sex Positions For a Woman's Pleasure (Sex Positions, Sex, Best Sex Positions Series)

The New Sex Bible for Women: The Complete Guide to Sexual Self-Awareness and Intimacy

Vitamin O: Why Orgasms are Vital to a Woman's Health and Happiness, and How to Have Them Every Time!

Top Sex Positions: 10 Best Sex Positions And 20 Ways To Find the G-Spot

I hope this helps.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY