I just got out of a relationship, and I've been very sad and depressed about it. My friends have been very helpful with trying to cheer me up, and we all went out to the club to have some fun.
As soon as I got there, I noticed a guy in the line staring at me. He was really good looking and I hoped to see him inside. I saw him and we danced and he bought me a couple of drinks. At the end of the night, I went home with him. The next morning I woke up in his bed, and he told me it was time for me to go. I thought we would at least have sex one more time or breakfast. He hasn't even called me.
I feel even more horrible now. I don't know what to do to feel better. Please help me.
Signed,
Man Trouble
WISY's Response:
Dear Man Trouble,
Slow it down, home girl. Allow yourself the time to heal. Getting under a new man doesn't always help you get over an old one. I know you were looking for someone to come along and be Prince Charming, but you won't find that with a one night stand.
The most important thing for you to do now is to partake in activities which will help you bounce back from the hurt. If you're religious, pray. If you're spiritual, meditate. Find your happy place again. Go see family, spend time with close friends, immerse yourself in esteem building activity until you feel comfortable in your own company again.
Once you're good, by all means, start dating again.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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