Please help. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me because he doesn't want to have sex like we used to. He used to come to my house after work and spend the night, and we used to have sex all night, but now he comes over, eats his dinner, and goes to sleep. He promises that he will wake up and give me the D but that never happens. He claims he is so tired all of the time. I don't know what changed all of a sudden, but it is really becoming a problem for me.
I think he's cheating. What do you think happened? How can I get it back to what it was?
Signed,
Need It
WISY's Advice:
Dear Need It,
I can understand your frustration. I don't think he's cheating. If he is, he's having side dishes with his lunch because he still comes directly to you after work and spends the entire night.
Maybe he's taken on additional responsibility at work or maybe he realizes the toll that all night sex is having on his body, and knows that he needs to rest rather than engage in any action with you. It could also be an underlying health issue or maybe he's just gotten comfortable. There are multiple reasons as to why this is happening. In any case, it's a drastic change and you should speak with him about it. Tell him that empty promises will only drive a wedge between you. Ask him to communicate more so you're not left making assumptions.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
If you re not in the mood for sex does it mean you are cheating? Just talk to him and find out if everything is OK. Men do tired too.
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