I really miss my boyfriend who is now in the army. We try to keep in touch but I don't know how much longer I can stay without him. I love him but I’m a woman who needs to be with her man physically on a constant basis. I am longing for someone to touch me. I am becoming tempted to invite my ex to do the job. He has been calling me a lot as if he knows I need attention.
I don't want to. I would like to remain strong but I am becoming weak. Please help me out. How do I remain strong?
Signed,
Lonely
WISY’s Advice:
Dear Lonely,
I can definitely understand the need for physical attention. Long distance relationships are tough, and being in the military with no absolute idea of his return must be extremely difficult. This is why it takes a strong person to be in a relationship with someone in the armed forces. If it’s not something you think you can handle, you should remove yourself from the relationship.
It’s natural to want the easy solution (i.e. cheating with your ex) when you have such a strong drive for physical attention, but you have to overcome that. If you can master your thought process, everything else will fall into place. It will take a lot of self-discipline, prayer, meditation, and imagination.
Meditation and prayer help to center your mind. If you are truly dedicated to your man then your mind will center itself on that and your urges to cheat will decrease. Also, get some adult toys and get creative until your man comes home to give you the real deal.
But again, if you can’t handle it, honorably discharge yourself from the relationship.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
There is a different between a woman and a lady. A lady respect her self and the man she love. A woman want to fulfill her wont. If youra lady you find something to do with your time until the man you love come home. Read books put god in your life find something to do with your self.you should be a shame off your self thinking about your ex to take care of it
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