I feel so disgusting right now. I just found out that the guy I've been seeing is my cousin. I met him a few months ago on a dating site. I was instantly attracted to him, and we met up and hit it off right away. The relationship evolved, we did all kinds of nasty things to each other, we even told each other that we loved each other.
I guess I didn't get to know him well enough because I didn't know that he was my aunt's child that went to live with his father. I never knew the full story about what happened with my aunt and my cousin's father, but I knew that his dad took him from her.
I feel filthy right now. I don't know what to do. He still wants to remain involved with me, but I just want to run away. Another part of me wants to forget that we're family and remain involved.
I need advice on how to get over this.
Signed,
Kissing Cousin
WISY's Advice:
Dear Kissing Cousin,
Please omit continuing the relationship from your mind. You absolutely cannot remain involved with your cousin. Thinking of the future alone should put things into perspective for you and wipe away any lingering desire to remain involved. How far can you actually go with your cousin? It's illegal, it's immoral, and it's unnatural. This is your 1st cousin. Just stop.
Tell him that everything that happened was a mistake, and you'd only continue to get to know him as your long lost family member - nothing else! If he can't handle that then he can remain lost.
Pray, meditate, clear your head however you choose, and move on in your journey to finding love. I believe once you find the right person, you'll forget any of this ever happened.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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