I'm writing because I need advice about a situation that just happened. I went on a trip with my boyfriend and his female friend. It was supposed to be a romantic weekend for us but he invited his friend because she was going through some problems in her own relationship. At first I was upset but I got over it and I let her come.
That was a big mistake. This girl took over the trip like she was the one who planned it. She forced my man to do water sports and my man can't swim! She told him she would not let anything happen to him and he agreed to go out on the bounce boat. Guess where I was...on the shore, holding their bags and watching on like a third wheel.
After that she insisted that we go out to eat at this expensive restaurant, and she didn't pay for her meal - my man did. After dinner she stayed in our room until really late at night because she was missing her man and lonely. I was so pissed at her and my man for not recognizing that they are spoiling this trip for me.
When she finally left I got into it with my man. I told him she hijacked the trip and I was pissed that he allowed it. He told me that that's his friend from childhood and he wouldn't want her to suffer. He obviously didn't care that I was unhappy so I made a plan to carry out when we got back home.
When we landed she thanked us for allowing her to come along, and I almost felt bad for her. But I couldn't wait to give her a taste of her own medicine. I called her man up and told him I wanted to finally take him up on his offer. They don't know but her man has always tried to get these panties. He's a hoe and that's why shes going through her mess. Long story short, I met up with him the next night and took my frustrations out on his amazingly satisfying d! ck! Yes, I did and I don't feel bad about it. I actually feel better about her stealing my d!ck down time. Now we're even.
My only issue is the continuation of it. I really enjoyed myself and he's asking for more so I know my goodies were sweet to him too. I don't want to cheat so I need help forgetting about what happened. How do I block something so good out of my memory?? This is a serious question.
Signed,
Payback
WISY's Advice:
Dear Payback,
What kind of logic is this? You're even?? Did she sleep with your man?? I can definitely understand your frustration with home girl coming along and ruining your trip, but I can't understand how sleeping with her man makes things right. On top of that, you slept with a man you call a "hoe". I just don't understand your reasoning.
The fact that you would cheat on your man tells me that your relationship problems pre-date the trip. A one-time issue like this doesn't send the average person running for another man's bed. Get what I'm saying? You are experiencing deeper issues and it doesn't seem like your being completely honest about that.
Anyway, moving on. You've found pleasure in your plot for revenge and now you're concerned about the temptation to continue. On one hand, I'm glad you recognize that your infidelity should not occur again, but on the other hand, you and the guy you cheated with may be perfect for each other - you know, with the cheating and deceit - perfect match! But I digress, um, I suggest you talk to your man again about the trip. Tell him how hurt you were about him choosing his friend over you on a trip that was meant to be an intimate weekend rendezvous. Schedule a do-over and be adamant about the need for the two of you to connect. After that, call the "hoe" and tell him to make amends with his girlfriend, and leave you alone.
Next time, don't discard your feelings. If you didn't want her on the trip, you should've refused to accommodate her from the beginning.
Walk good,
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This is lady.... I don't even want to call her that cause ladies respect themselves and the man that can afford a trip for 3 PEOPLE!!!! She didn't even see that part hun? But she is waaaaayyyyyy out of line for sleeping with the chicks old hoe ass man. Why would you even want to subject your man to what ever flees you pick up from that nasty "D", what kind of revenge is that? In the end she's going to loose her relationship for some hoe ass D.
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