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Dear WISY,
Please help! Keep my anonymous.
My boyfriend and I have been together for six months and I told him that we could try something new when we got to this point. I was expecting him to ask for a threesome or bondage but he wants me to toss his salad.
I told him I think that's nasty and I don't want to do it. Now he's complaining that I didn't stay true to my word. I am trying to put my mind to the task but I really don't think I can do that.
Do you think I'm overreacting? I know people who do it and they don't have any bad experiences but I don't see myself doing that. Also, do you think he's gay?
Signed,
Not Into It
Dear NII,
If you don't want to do it then don't. I don't believe you should do something solely because you're being pressured. In the end, you'll regret compromising your values and even begin to resent your boyfriend for persuading you to carry out an act that you're opposed to.
Is he gay? No, he's not. You're a woman, aren't you? Is he freaky/kinky? Absolutely.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
BBC! No sah! Stand your ground ma'am. Don't fall for the guilt trip. We all have our boundaries and we should not be forced to cross them to make another happy. If he doesn't respect your personal boundaries, HE IS NOT FOR YOU. He is against you and he just want someone to lick his nasty ass. Don't do it if it violates your conscience. Get out.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should make a deal with him. Offer him a threesome and a little bondage if he would just forget the salad tossing. If he insists, offer a threesome with another guy. If he accepts that last offer, then watch him carefully. He might be bi
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