Dear WISY,
Please let me know what you think about this situation.
Last night I was out with my friends and we were all at a
mutual friend’s house for a party. This
guy started talking to me and he got me a drink and we talked for a few hours. The conversation was very good and that
attracted me to him. Anyway,
in the middle of our conversation this girl came up and pinched his side. He turned around and was very excited to see
her. He told me he would be right back
and never came back. The girl took all
his attention for the rest of the night.
Later on, I was talking to another guy and he was cute and
seemed well educated. We started to
dance after a while but I have to admit that my mind was still on the first
guy. I was kind of upset that he just
disappeared like that. Anyway, I played
it off and let this new one entertain me.
By the end of the night, the new guy was all over me. My friends were teasing me about how into me
he was. He asked me for my number and I
gave it to him. At this point, the first
guy wasn’t on my mind anymore. I was
good with who I ended up with. I was
excited that I had a potential summer boo but anyway, my little excitement was
gone in the blink of an eye because the first dude came over to us and started
trouble.
He was asking Guy #2 what he was doing talking to me because
he already “tagged” me. He told Guy #2
that he had no business booed up with me all night because he saw him talking
to me. So Guy #2 told him that he lost
his opportunity when he left to talk to the other girl. I was nodding my head in agreement. Guy #1 didn’t like me agreeing with him
because he looked at me and started calling me derogatory names. I thought Guy #2 would defend me but he
didn’t say a word. He just stood there
looking like a fool. My friends had to
come up and defend me.
I left both of them standing there and I looked back just in
time to see the both of them laughing and giving each other a pound. I asked what that was about to one of my
friends and she told me they were fraternity brothers so they can’t beef with
each other.
What do you think about this situation? And if Guy #2 calls, what should my approach
be?
Signed,
I Feel Played
Dear IFP,
It sounds like you stumbled upon two very immature little
boys. Leaving them where you met them is
the best thing.
I think it's safe to say that Guy #1 is a douche and we don't need to spend any more time discussing him. On to the next!
If Guy #2 was able to identify that Guy #1 left you hanging
for the other girl and didn’t speak up more to defend you then let his call go
to voicemail. I don’t know how
fraternity brother relationships work but I’m pretty sure there’s nothing in
their rule book that says they must stand by and watch their potential love
interest be disrespected.
You’ve dodged a bullet here. You don’t need those types of men in your
life.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Thankfully you dodged two bullets!
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