I'm having a real problem. I'm losing my money and I'm on the road to losing my family and my mind.
Last year, my best friend got married and me and some other friends threw him a bachelor party. The party was supposed to be low key because we are all sons of God and are very active in our church but the other guys hired strippers and things got out of hand.
At first I was really upset but since my friend liked it, I decided to just be cool. Eventually, they convinced me to get a lap dance. I didn't think I would like it but my manhood would not relax. I was embarrassed and didn't want to get up. She thought I wanted more and continued. I did want more but I didn't want to admit that. I loved it so much that I began to lust for the stripper and I haven't been able to stop lusting for them ever since.
I go out to the strip club at least 4 times a week and I spend a lot of money in there. I've spent so much money that I've made a serious dent in our savings and have lapsed on most of our bills. My wife has become suspicious and said she is going to investigate. She is worse than the FBI and I know she will find out what I've been up to.
I'm afraid now that I will lose my wife and family and will be exposed to the church. Please tell me what I should tell her and how I can overcome this addiction.
Signed,
Addicted to Strippers
WISY's Response:
Dear Addicted,
If you're a son of God then you shouldn't be asking me what to tell your wife. The truth shall set you free, my brother. It may also involuntarily free you of a family, your career and your reputation so, try to prepare yourself for that.
Be open with the friends who introduced you to strippers and tell them what has happened. Ask them for some financial help to get your bills paid. I think they, more than anyone else, will understand that you are human and what the pressures placed on you by the church can do.
I'm guessing that this was a suppressed desire within you and because of your religion, you felt the need to ignore it. I know you may feel this is the wrong advice but I suggest that you indulge in your desires every once in a while. You don't need to go spending your money on it either. Instead, express your desires to your wife and ask her to give you a lap dance, buy her some sexy outfits and fulfill your desires free of charge, in your home and without shame!
You have to take care not to take everything you read so literally. If you were more realistic, you wouldn't be in this mess now.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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Hopefully your wife understands and you can work through this. I find the holy people are always the biggest hypocrites.
ReplyDeletePeople in general are hypocrites. Holy people are regular people too. They are no bigger hypocrites than the rest of us.
DeleteThey paint them self in a different light and place them self on pedals and criticise the rest of us. That makes them bigger hypocrites!
DeleteHe also needs to get help for that addictive behavior. He will find some other forbidden desire to get hooked to in the near future then again he might learn to be more open with his hidden desires and get support from his friends and wife that can help him to stay away from the distractions.
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