Don't criticize me too much, I'm just being open and honest and I need your advice. I have two men in my life and I'm equally involved with both. I've been doing this for a few months now. I met the first guy and we were having a good time and getting close and then I met the other one at a party and he was just so nice that I didn't want to lose out on being with someone so special. So, I didn't tell him I was seeing someone and I haven't told the first guy I want to break it off. I really love both of them and I can't choose between the two so I kept both.
Honestly, I don't see why I can't have two men and everybody not go crazy about it. Men do it all the time and it's 2017 so women should be able to do it without criticism too. Anyway, I wasn't planning to leave either of them but the major problem I'm having right now is that I'm so tired from dealing with two men at the same time. Sometimes, I have to sleep with both of them in the same day and I can't manage anymore. I don't want to leave any of them but I don't want to wear down my body either.
I need you to help me choose between the two (here are their pics) because I'm not able to choose on my own. I would list the differences between the two but they are so much alike, they even have the same name. On second thought, the first guy doesn't last very long in bed and the other one makes sure he gets the job done. I think I answered my own question! 😂😂😂😂
Signed,
Which One
Dear Which One,
Let's clear this up first and foremost, you don't really love both of them, you don't love either of them at all. If you did, you wouldn't be engaged in behavior which could hurt them deeply. Secondly, men who have multiple women at once are only accepted and glorified by fools with mental disorders such as detachment issues and insecurity. Third, I'm not posting anyone's picture on this column; you need to learn to respect people and their privacy.
Speaking of mental issues, what's going on in that psyche of yours? What makes you need two men at once? Think about that and do something to fix yourself. You need to stop putting your health at risk just because you're too selfish and self absorbed to let go of people you are using. Do you require a constant ego boost? Have you been neglected in the past? I want you to really sit and think about what's causing this?
I can't help you choose which man you want and like you said, you may have answered your own question. In my opinion, you don't deserve either of them. I hope I can encourage you to leave this sort of behavior alone and if you can't quite let go yet, please don't commit to anyone.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Dear Cheater, how much criticism is too much??
ReplyDeleteYou don't love anyone so stop lying to yourself.
I am going to help you choose by using a foolproof method: tell the both of them and let them choose. I guarantee that will clear up any confusion. Dumbass.
Sweetheart, don't listen to the haters. They are liars! You see something in both of these guys that you like. If you found one guy with all those qualities then it would be easier to choose. The only mistake you made is to make them think that they are the only one. You should take control and let them know that you are not anyone's girlfriend. However, this would be different if you were over 35. Early 20's is okay, but you'd be a jackass if you're doing this in your 30's. Take this time in your life to figure out what you need in a man. In the mean time, enjoy them both, but continue to search.
ReplyDeleteIf you want more than one man, go ahead but don't deceive anyone. That's where you went wrong.
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