Monday, January 9, 2017

Is he Married?

Dear WISY,

I have been dating a guy now for a few weeks. I am very observant and I've noticed his ring finger has an indentation and is lighter than the rest of his finger as if a ring is permanently placed there.

Is it too early for me to ask him about that? He is handsome and very kind but he has only taken me to hotels, I haven't visited his home. I fear he is hiding the truth from me. So tell me, is it too early for me to ask these questions of him? He has expressed that he sees a future for us but how is that if he is married?

Please tell me what to do.

Signed,
Suspicious

Dear Suspicious,

My gut is telling me something ain't quite right here.  You should definitely ask him about his two colored finger.  It's never too early to ask questions and get clarification about someone you plan to get serious with.  The fact that he has only taken you to hotels is clear indication that he has to hide you...probably from his wife and family.

He's obviously not happy at home and is looking for an escape.  Unless you get pleasure out of being someone's part time fantasy, you should part ways with this guy.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY

6 comments:

  1. Hell no it ain't to early. That should have been the 1st on a long list of preliminary questions so you don't go out, catch feelings only to find out too late. Girl get your questionnaire ready and take notes!

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  2. Too early? The only thing too early was giving up the pum pump and don't know where the man lives. Kmt

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  3. You really sound blonde. Let me tell you..... he is married, and he wants to enjoy you for as long as possible. All the future plans he's making with you is all bull. We just need you to know that we prefer you not asking any questions. Tell him not to make any promises... just pleasure you and go home. You say he's handsome. I'm sure he likes your body. Take it for what it is.... a temporary fix. Don't mess it up now by asking questions. Just make sure you use protection and protect your feelings.

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