I need to exhale for a moment. I have been carrying this burden for the past six months and I just need to tell somebody about this little boy who is giving me my groove back!
I know this is terrible but my co-worker turned close friend has a son who was too yummy for me to resist. He's 24 and I'm 43. I know I'm robbing the cradle but I can't lie, I'm enjoying every bit of this. I was tired of men my age being semi-erect and passing out after the first round. I forgot what it's like to have a a rock to work with followed by 2 and even 3 rounds. This little boy is putting in that work!
The problem is, she comes to me everyday complaining about the "girl" her son is seeing who is buying him gifts and taking him on trips. That girl is me and I am struggling to be her friend and not her son's sugar mama. Yea, I say sugar mama because I know how this works and I don't mind it at all. He is wearing my ass out and I love it. Why can't I reward him for his exceptional performance?
The other night he said he wants to move in together. I live in a gated community and I live well. I know his little eyes want some of what I have but I'm not sure. Do you think it's worth it to possibly upset my friend for this bomb loving? Let me know!
Signed,
Robbing the Cradle
WISY's Response:
Dear RTC,
Okay, Stella! It's a whole different ball game once this guy moves in with you. There's a lot you need to discuss with him before you make him your live in lover. Make sure he's willing to live up to your standards because good loving can get old real quick if the other aspects are not up to par.
You seem to be okay with the label "sugar mama" and all it entails so I won't touch on how there may be a high possibility that he doesn't have true feelings for you and is just enjoying his seat in your lap of luxury. But, you know how this works so you're good, right? You won't get hurt if he up and leaves you for the next best thing or for someone his age, right? Alright, so let's move on.
If you guys are going to get serious then revealing everything to your friend is inevitable. You both should sit her down and tell her. She may be uncomfortable and she may even stop speaking to you. It's up to you to decide if her friendship or her son's loving is worth more. I couldn't possibly answer that for you.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Well, if that's making you happy then why not. Just be careful about him moving in with you, I would not go so far but it's not me. It's nobody s business even if the mom finds out oh well, she ain't your husband.
ReplyDeleteYou like that young thing? They come with alot of trouble heartache and pain. Stick to your age group and buy those men some viagra.
ReplyDeleteIt's about time older woman are free with the idea of dating younger. I myself am 33 and have gotten involved with a 22 year old and he has treated me better than all the men I've dated in the past. he's always telling me i'm beautiful, intelligent, and how much he likes me, motivates me to be better and never give up. Takes care of me when i'm sick and listens to all my problems. Buys me gifts just to show his appreciation. even cooks for me when I'm hungry. Tries new things with me and is all around a really good man. Not to mention he's fine!!!! like drop dead model type fine!!! All in all we are taking our time and getting to really bond and connect. I really appreciate him and he makes sure to tell me the same. Men have always gotten away with dating younger. I think women should do the same.
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