I told my best friend that her man keeps getting forward with me and has asked me to sleep with him and perform oral sex. I told her this out of concern that he may be asking other people to do the same thing and is probably getting what he asks for. I had no intentions to hurt her and she should know that. Instead she has stopped talking to me and accused me of being jealous of her relationship.
I have two concerns right now: I don't want her going around, telling people that I'm jealous of her relationship and I also really want my friend back and fear she won't ever be the same towards me again.
Where do I go from here?
Signed,
True BFF
WISY's Response:
Dear True BFF,
You clearly had good intentions but to an insecure person, that sort of news isn't taken well. Her defense mechanism is to spin this whole situation to vilify you in order to avoid dealing with the pain and embarrassment of her man's actions. Try not to take any of it personally.
She probably already has an inkling that her man has been up to no good and sooner or later his actions will be exposed to the point where she cannot ignore them or deflect blame. If he can be forward with someone as close to her as you are then he is probably having a field day with others she may or may not know also.
I wouldn't be too concerned with what she has to say about you. I think you should be more concerned about her reaction to all of this. She was quick to dismiss you from her life, remember that. You don't need those types of friends. Go about your business peacefully.
If she comes back with a sincere apology and a broken heart, you can lend her a shoulder to cry on but remember the lesson you have learned from all of this.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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My dear, keep living your life like its Golden. You cannot control what other people say about you so get over that quickly.
ReplyDeleteYou can have your friend back but not right now cause it looks like he got her open. Let them do them and you do you. #keepitmoving
Sweetie, mind your business. What you should have done is record his conversation. You have your cell phone next to you... use it. I wouldn't believe you either without evidence. Another thing is what do they really think about you? The only way a guy is gonna ask his girlfriend's friend to give him oral is because he probably considers you easy or a slut already. If he didn't seem interested in sleeping with you and just wanted oral means he doesn't even respect you. He just considers you a 'hoe', based on something she must have told him about you. So you're better off being away from them.
ReplyDeleteUmmm.that's illegal (referring to recording).
DeleteI can't stand girls like that. Your better off without her.
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