There's a girl my brother has been dealing with for a while now. She's a really nice girl and she gets along with the family. I can tell she is in love with my brother and he is equally as in love with her. There is an issue that has been riding my mind though. This girl is a known slut. Well, rumor has it that she is and although she seems great, I don't want my brother to be exposed to any STDs and I don't want him getting hurt.
I don't want to be the one to upset their happiness but I can't help but be concerned about him. I have a lot of male friends and each one of them have had a spin off of her. Even my brother's friends are wondering what he's doing with her but he's so in love, he can't seem to see the potential danger. The boy is talking marriage and starting a family with her in the near future. I'm getting really nervous.
I want to talk with her about what I've heard but I don't want to upset my brother and I actually don't want to upset the girl either but I feel I should do so to clear the air. What do you think?
Signed,
Concerned Sister
Dear Concerned Sister,
As a sister who is overprotective of her brothers, I understand where you're coming from but you must learn, like I did, to mind your business and focus on your own relationship. You need to also remember that everyone has a past and we don't know what the circumstances may have been to cause people to behave the way they did.
As a woman, you must take care not to degrade her and drag her down by the rumors you have heard. Obviously, the men you know are already doing a great job of that. She is in love now and that may be what she has been looking for all this time. You had positive things to say about her in your letter. Let that reign and allow your brother to make his own (for lack of a better word) mistakes but from what you've expressed about them, I doubt this is a mistake.
Being concerned for your brother shows how much you love him and want what's best so if he's happy, let him be happy. He is aware of the rumors and has still embraced her and you never know if they've already had the discussion of her past between themselves. It's their business, not yours. Let it be.
Walk good,
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Dear concerned sister, please stop referring to your brother's girlfriend as a slut. First, girls who are promiscuous are usually victims themselves. I know a pretty young lady who loved to be intimate and enjoyed it with many men. Turned out that she was raped by her uncle when she was younger. Some never experienced the love of father or a father figure in their lives and seek it in other men. Some just enjoy it the way most men do. The only reason you know about her habits is because she happened to sleep with idiot, childish boys who can't keep their mouths shut. What you should advise you brother to o is to make sure they both get tested first if they want to consider settling down. Your brother may be giving her the love and affection she has been looking for all her life. Now that girl has had lots of practice, so she must be great in bed and your brother gets all the benefits. Please don't judge her..... sit with her, talk to her, show her love and support because she may turn to be great person and you'll see what your brother sees in her, and not what all the dirty, big mouth losers said about her. The only difference between her and other girls is that she slept with a few guys who know each other and couldn't keep their mouths shut.
ReplyDeleteAnd what about you and your relationship? You probably don't even have one because you're to busy interfering in other people business. You say you have a lot of male friends...suppose people start to spread rumors about you because of that?
ReplyDeleteMa'am, mind your business. Unless he is special needs and doesn't understand human interaction, you need to let him live in love and peace.
ReplyDeleteMa'am, mind your business. Unless he is special needs and doesn't understand human interaction, you need to let him live in love and peace.
ReplyDeleteGirl mind your business please. I'm sure you ain't no Dam Saint. Go find a man an kip out of other people love life.
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