Please post. I don't want to come off as paranoid but I have a feeling that my good friend is dealing with my man behind my back. I haven't seen any evidence of it but I just know something is going on.
They are always unreachable at the same time and then suddenly become available at the same time. Whenever he travels for work, she somehow is having a "bad week" and doesn't want to talk with anyone or she is traveling also. He seems to care more about her when we all go out than he cares about me. For example, he refills her drink without her asking and I will be drinking the water from the melted ice and he won't even notice.
I don't want to come across as the jealous, paranoid type but I need to know if something is going on between them. I have even tried to leave them alone in a room and sneak back to catch them but I never catch them in the act.
Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable or if you think something could be going on based on the information I've given you.
Signed,
Paranoid
WISY's Response:
Dear Paranoid,
I don't really know what to say here. If you don't have any evidence then it's hard to call it. I would suggest you mention their coinciding unavailability and see what the reaction is. Also, tell your boyfriend that his main focus should be on you and not her and see what he says. You will be able to tell a lot about how he feels about her from his response. If he protests too much then there's probably something going on.
I could say that you should always pay attention to your intuition but it could also be your insecurities. Ask the right questions (both to yourself and your boyfriend) and you're bound to get to the bottom of this.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Girl our female intuition is usually right. Talk to him about it hear his response and don't be naiive. Keep watching and don't ignore the signs.
ReplyDeleteSounds like he might like her but hasn't done anything out of the way with her.......yet.
ReplyDeleteIntuintions are usually right.... i would have becme suspicious too. I am a man so asking hum will only have him deny it and use better hiding ng tactics. If you truly want to know i suggest either calling from a completly diff numbe. Or place a tape recorder under the seat of his car..... but that makes ght reveal way to much
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