Two's Company, Three's a Crowd

Dear WISY,

I need your opinion on a situation with my man.  We have a great sex life and we have a lot of fun together but every time we go out and he gets a few drinks in him, he asks me to have a threesome.  He'll say things like:  "Babe, wouldn't you want to see me do it to another chick?" or "Babe, we could make her do whatever we want her to do.  You'll like it too!"

I thought I was open to the idea but when I really think about it, I'm not sure that's the kind of activity I want to engage in.  I would tell him this but I am afraid he will be disappointed in my decision and look for a threesome without me.

I really love my man.  He's the master of love making and I don't know if I could be this satisfied by another guy but I'm not okay with the threesome thing.  On the other hand, I don't want to lose him.  What do I do?

Signed,
Just Us

Dear Just Us,

It's always best to be open and honest with your partner so go ahead and tell him how you feel about threesomes.  If he values your relationship then he'll give it a rest.  If he decides to look for a threesome elsewhere then let him go.  You will find someone else who is more compatible with your sexual preferences.

It seems this is something he really wants so also keep in mind that if he doesn't go looking elsewhere, he may try to re-introduce you to the idea again in the future.  

Walk good,
#TeamWISY