I Love My Brother In Law

Dear WISY,

I have a confession to make.  I have been holding it for years and I can't take it anymore.  I find my sister's husband irresistible and I have been having an affair with him since before they were married.  I was with him on the eve of their wedding and he told me he loved me and told me that when he was saying his vows to my sister that he meant them for me too.

I know he loves me.  I can see it in his eyes when he tells me that he really wants to be with me.   When he sees me three times a week after his basketball games I can see it's hard for him to leave my side but I tell him he has to go.  I'm tired of telling him he has to go.  I want him to stay.  I don't have eyes for any other man and he is amazing in bed.  I want him so bad.  It sounds terrible but it's true.  I believe he is for me and I am for him.

I told him I'm going to tell my sister and he told me he is ready for the consequences of our actions.  I know my family will be upset with me but I don't care.  I love him too much.  I just don't want to regret it down the line.  I'm coming to you for your opinion to make my final decision.

Thanks,
I Love My Brother In Law

Dear ILMBIL,

I absolutely think you should tell your sister of your deceitful actions and take the back lash without protest.  I don't understand why you chose to have an affair with your sister's man when there are so many single men walking this earth.  You both should be ashamed of yourselves.  

I don't really have much more to say on this.  Tell her and prepare for karma.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY