I've been dating this guy for about four months now and when I met him he was a humble guy. I couldn't get over how humble he was because he was drop dead gorgeous.
I met him while on vacation and I fell in love with him within the week that I visited his island. He showed me all the spots that tourists don't get to see and he made my nights unforgettable. I fell hard for him really fast. I was hopeless and there was no way of rescuing me from his seductive arms.
After I left, I began sending him money on a weekly basis because his living conditions were less than ideal. I've even sent him barrels filled with clothes, shoes and food. I've sent him a top of the line cell phone and other gifts to help with his low income situation.
Now, I can barely manage to reach him. When he does pick up, he doesn't have much to say. He hurries me off the phone and is short with me. I don't understand why he is treating me this way now. I've given him everything he wanted and I even considered bringing him to the UK for a vacation. He's no longer my humble, golden locked hunk of a man.
What have I done wrong? Please help!
Signed,
Hopelessly in Love
Dear Hopeless,
ReplyDeleteUmmmm, how do I put this lightly? My dear, it seems as if you have been conned by a "Rent-A-Dread"! Please direct your attention to the YouTube video in this post.
Stop sending money and goods immediately.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
What have you done wrong??
ReplyDeleteYou began an intimate relationship with a stranger with lust being the only foundation. I'm sure there were signs that you casually ignored because you swear you are in love; we usually cannot process when a man is showing us his true self when our legs are open.
You began financially investing with no consideration for your return on investment. You were sending him things, but what were you getting?
You cannot understand why he is treating you the way he started to treat you? Let me help you. You got GOT.
He saw you coming a mile away, told you what you wanted to hear, made you feel desirable, and fed you some fat-free bull. You fell for it because not only did he play on your emotions, you were just foolish.
He did not love you. He used you for what you had because he sensed you were willing. Now that he's gotten all he wanted from you, he has let you know he does not need you anymore.
Beware though, he may run out of something or have some unexpected need and try to rekindle fires of the past with you. Please don't be stupid this time, and be grateful that you learned of this BEFORE you brought him to the UK. He may have taken the house you live in and the panty you're wearing.
Don't be so quick next time to just fall into some strange man's arms. This is LIFE, not some Hollywood movie set. Take time to know the next one please for your own benefit.
wowowowowow i always hear about these things but neva no ppl suh fool fi fall for it. the video is an eye opener. tourist beware !
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