Dear WISY,
I'm currently involved with three men. I like
each one of them for different reasons and if I had the power, I would combine
all three and make the ideal man for me! My issue is that they are all married
or in a serious relationship. I guess this is how I was able to juggle all
three without conflict.
I would like to have a man for myself but I’m
truly afraid of karma. I have never really had someone to call my own and would
like some help as to how I go about saying “no” to a man I have approached who
tells me they are in a relationship but still want to have dealings with me. It
may sound simple to you but for me it is a real issue. I don't know how to be
involved with someone who isn't involved with someone else.
Thanks for the help.
Signed,
It sounds simple and it is simple. Just say "no." If you really want to have someone for yourself, you should have no trouble rejecting someone already committed to another. But, I don't think you REALLY want someone for yourself.
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Sounds like commitment and self esteem issues. Maybe you should try seeing a therapist to get to the root of all of this. Best wishes!
ReplyDeleteJust say nooo !!! Some ppl jus born with the slut genes.
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