Tuesday, July 2, 2013

One to Call My Own

Dear WISY,

I'm currently involved with three men. I like each one of them for different reasons and if I had the power, I would combine all three and make the ideal man for me! My issue is that they are all married or in a serious relationship. I guess this is how I was able to juggle all three without conflict.

I would like to have a man for myself but I’m truly afraid of karma. I have never really had someone to call my own and would like some help as to how I go about saying “no” to a man I have approached who tells me they are in a relationship but still want to have dealings with me. It may sound simple to you but for me it is a real issue. I don't know how to be involved with someone who isn't involved with someone else.


Thanks for the help.

Signed,
One for Myself
                                                   

3 comments:

  1. It sounds simple and it is simple. Just say "no." If you really want to have someone for yourself, you should have no trouble rejecting someone already committed to another. But, I don't think you REALLY want someone for yourself.

    Walk good,
    #TeamWISY

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  2. Sounds like commitment and self esteem issues. Maybe you should try seeing a therapist to get to the root of all of this. Best wishes!

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  3. Just say nooo !!! Some ppl jus born with the slut genes.

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