Dear WISY,
This is not entertainment
related but I am sending my letter to you anyway. I have been depressed for the past 3 weeks
because my best friend is not talking to me anymore. It really pains my heart every day because I
can’t call her to talk and when I see her I have to hold my head straight because
she has threatened to beat me up. You
are probably wondering what I could have done to make her behave this way
towards me. The answer is nothing. I haven’t done anything to her but she thinks
I am a liar and a whore and she doesn’t want to have anything to do with
me. I need your help to prove her wrong
and hopefully get my best friend back.
She thinks I slept with
her boyfriend and that is something I would never ever do. I am the one who hooked them up
together. Before they were a couple, her
boyfriend and I hung out a lot because he is the son of my mother’s best friend
so he is actually more like a brother and I don’t look at him as a romantic
interest.
He made up a lie and told
her that I came on to him and we ended up having sex and went on to give her
all kinds of details about me and my body.
But these are things he knows and have seen throughout the years of us
growing up together.
The only reason why I
think he would do this is because I overheard his mother telling my mother
about another girl he was seeing and I asked him about it. He got angry and told me to shut up about it
or he would make sure my best friend never spoke to me again.
Of course, I didn’t
follow his command and I told my friend about the other girl. She asked him about it and he told her the
other girl was me. He said I was telling
her it’s another girl because I want him for myself.
All of this makes me sick
to my stomach. I can’t believe she would
just believe him after all these years of friendship. I have never betrayed her before and I can’t
believe she takes his word over mine. We
don’t even have the same taste in men!
Please help me out. I really miss my best friend. :’(
Signed,
Wrongfully Accused
Dear Wrongfully,
ReplyDeleteIt seems you are deeply affected by all of this. My best advice to you is to continue to proclaim your innocence and one day the truth will come to light. Have you discussed any of this with your mother and her best friend? Perhaps alerting his mother of his lies will prompt him to confess.
This all seems very child-like. I am assuming you are in your teens. If this is the case, unfortunately, you will probably encounter more viscous rumors. Do not allow them to affect you this deeply. I know that is probably easier said than done, but it is possible.
Hang in there. Life goes on with or without your best friend.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
PS - She doesn't sound like a BFF to me. She should know you better than to think you would betray her in this way - unless this is a character trait of yours - but that's a whole 'nother letter.