Monday, October 29, 2018

Was He Cheating with Her?

Dear WISY,

I need your advice, please.  I recently got out of an 8-year relationship.  I decided to leave my relationship because he was not serious enough about us.  He was just happy existing the way we have been for years.  I don't think he ever had the intention to marry me or have children with me.  He just wasted my time.  Anyway, I moved on and I am really enjoying single life.

I will admit that I have been stalking my ex's Facebook page.  I check up on him everyday because a part of me misses him.  I guess it's because I became used to him being around.  I checked his page yesterday and I saw that he changed his relationship status to being in a relationship with this girl who he swore was just a friend.  Seeing that took all of the joy I have been feeling these past few months.  I feel jealous and I feel like a fool.  I want to reach out to him and figure out if he had been seeing her all along.  I feel like she was the reason why he never moved forward with me.

Do you think he was cheating all along?  Should I ask him about it?

Signed,
Need to Know
WISY's Advice:

Dear NTK,

No, don't ask him.  What he may have done while in a relationship with you is irrelevant at this point.  Remember, you decided to move on because you were unhappy.  Keep going.  Don't allow your ego to interrupt the joy you were feeling since leaving.  Keep enjoying your single life until you decide to become involved with someone who is more compatible with you.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY
 

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