Dear WISY,
I'm a 21-year old guy who needs help. I'm seeing this girl and she is not my type. I slept with her because I was playing wing man for my friend and it turned into something more than I intended. I really like her, but like I said, she's not my type. I enjoy hanging with her and everything but she's getting too hype. She wants to go out together now. I don't want to tell her no because I like her and don't want to lose her company. I just don't want my friends to make a joke about the situation. I feel some type of way. How can I tell her the truth without hurting her? Like I said, I really like her and I like her company a lot. I know I sound like a jerk, but I'm just being honest. Help me out.
Signed,
Unintentional
Dear Unintentional,
You're immature, but I respect the fact that you reached out for help with this situation. You should stop saying "she's not your type"; clearly she is. What you should say is, "she's not the fantasized type popularized by your friends and the influential components in your life".
You obviously value this girl. You enjoy her company, she took you by surprise and blew your mind. Why lose all of that for what people may think? If they are really your friends, they will respect her if you are honest about your feelings and they see that she makes you happy. Once they see how much you value her, they will follow suit. If they don't, oh well. Your friends can't do for you what she can. 😉
In time, you'll learn that living for people and worrying about the opinions of others will cost you your happiness. Always travel the route which will lead to a destination of peace of happiness which suits your life.
In time, you'll learn that living for people and worrying about the opinions of others will cost you your happiness. Always travel the route which will lead to a destination of peace of happiness which suits your life.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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