Dear WISY,
I've been involved with a married man for years. We go on trips together, we go out on dates, we do everything together! He even spends the night when I want him to. I honestly don't feel like I'm being neglected by him because he has a wife. I like being with him and I claim him as my own without a second thought.
My friends and family are against the relationship. They want to see me get married, and they think I'm settling for less than I deserve. I just want them to recognize how happy I am and leave me alone. I'm tired of having to apologize about my family's behavior whenever he comes around. My mom is especially rude to him. I just want them to accept the relationship.
I'm seriously considering disconnecting from my family so I can live in peace. Should I?
Signed,
Happy Mistress
WISY's Advice:
Dear Happy Mistress,
You are considering disconnecting from the people who are obviously looking out for your best interest for someone who is living a player's dream? Okay...
Sweetheart, you will always receive criticism for your relationship choice. There's no getting away from that. If you choose to partake in socially unacceptable behavior then you should understand the consequences that accompany it. So, cutting your family off will not guarantee your peace.
When enough time passes and you begin to want more from your relationship, then what? Who will you run to when his wife finds out about you and he decides to kick you to the curb? Your family and friends, right?
But, I could be wrong about all this. He may be all you need, and if that's the case, go ahead and break the hearts of the ones who love you. 😏
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
If she wants to be with her man and she's content with that, let her go. Life is a learning experience.
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