Last week I went on a date with this guy that my friends set me up with. I have never been on a blind date but I gave it a go because my dating life has been dry. I showed up to the restaurant about 15 mins early and waited for him for about 30 minutes. He was so late and didn't apologize for it. During the date, he talked about himself. He didn't ask me anything about myself. Then when the check came, he asked me to pay for my meal. Am I missing something here?? Isn't he supposed to pay for the meal? It's safe to say, I didn't like him at all and will not be going on future dates with him!
Signed,
Blind Date
WISY's Advice:
Dear BD,
This is a hot topic these days. With the emergence of more and more independent or financially stable women coupled with strong feminist views in our society today, many have adopted the idea that dates should be split evenly. Personally, I appreciate chivalry but I'm not opposed to paying for my own meal. If I was asked to do so, I wouldn't at all be as shocked as you seem to be. I've offered to pay on many occasions because I understand the concept of equality across the board. Sometimes I offend and sometimes I am met with expressions of gratitude for the gesture with a polite decline to my offer.
In any case, this guy didn't seem to be into you. He displayed that with his actions throughout the date. I think that may also contribute to him asking you to pay. Just cut your losses and move on. It's not a big deal. Hopefully, you ordered what you could afford.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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