I'm married and not happy anymore. I am not attracted to my husband anymore. I can't stand it when we're out in public and he wants to put his hands around my waist. I am embarrassed to be seen with him. He is no longer the sexy man I married. He has gained weight. He cannot last long during sex so I stopped having sex with him because it just makes me upset.
I don't want to leave because of our children , but I don't know how long I can remain married to someone I am not attracted to anymore. I have even cheated on him with a younger, hotter guy. I have no regrets about that. What should I do about my husband? Should I divorce him?
Signed,
Not Happy
WISY's Response:
Dear Not Happy,
He's gained weight and you've lost integrity. 🤷
Why don't you begin a fitness plan with your husband? Since your marriage seems to be rooted in physical appearances, I would have thought that you would have considered that simple fix to remedy your issue.
If you love him, you would invest in your partner's well-being. Marriage is work. You have to encourage and uplift each other. You don't cheat as soon as you decide your husband has gained more weight than what you'd prefer.
You seem shallow. Leave if you want. He deserves someone who will help steer him in the right direction in every situation.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
You are shallow and your husband deserves better than you. If your husband was disfigured in an accident, would you gleefully cheat because you're not attracted anymore? Why did you even get married? You need to free your husband from the likes of you. Clearly he needs to drop weight as it is affecting his stamina and he needs to lose alot-YOU. People lose weight everyday but you can't even stick it out with him, prepare and ensure healthy meals, encourage him to be active? Ma'am you are a weak wife at best. Divorce him. The kids will be ok because your dysfunction will only make them worse if you keep living that lie, thot. Carry on.
ReplyDeleteDamn! So harsh...somebody will still want her fat man. Chuups #petty
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