I Read Her Text Messages

Dear WISY,

I've been seeing my girlfriend for a few months.  I love her and I see a future with her.  She is my first real girlfriend, and because of her I am more comfortable with my sexuality.  The other day she left her phone on the bathroom counter and I went into the bathroom and couldn't resist the urge to go through her phone.  I went through her messages and found out that she is bisexual and is still communicating with guys while we're together.

From her phone messages, I found out that she wants real 🍆.  She said she's tired of me acting like a man and she's ready for something different.  I feel like she's going to leave soon, but she hasn't been communicating anything to me.  She hasn't been acting different or anything.  I'm so confused.

Do I confront her about what I found?  How do I continue like I didn't see all of that?

Signed,
Girlfriend

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WISY's Advice:

Dear Girlfriend,

It's never a good idea to snoop, especially if you're not prepared to deal with anything you're not ready to see.  So, now you have to tell your girlfriend that you decided to go through her phone and you saw some things that made you uncomfortable and confused.  Ask her to be honest with you about her intentions with you.  If she hasn't been showing signs then she may be trying to stick it out with you.  It's also possible that she has difficulty expressing her needs, and will use this opportunity as her ticket out.  Just use this conversation to gain as much clarity as possible.  What happens next is totally up to you.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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