Monday, October 9, 2017

Why Won't He Go Out With Me?

Dear WISY,

I met this guy at a party.  He was the best looking guy at the party and exactly my type.  He was dressed well, beautiful smile, chiseled jaw line - perfect!  We hit it off that night and exchanged numbers.  We've been talking on the phone for a month now, but he hasn't made an attempt to see me.  I asked him if he wanted to go out, but he keeps saying he's busy.

What do you think is going on?  I'm not used to guys making excuses not to see me.

Signed,
What's Going On?

WISY's Response:

Dear WGO,

It sounds like this guy is truly busy or just doesn't think you're worth his time.  Maybe try to ask a few questions for clarity.  You can ask him what he's busy with or you could take the more direct approach and ask him why he keeps making excuses.

If he can't give you a legitimate reason then he's probably not interested and hasn't figured out how to tell you yet.  He may also be shy or have anxiety when it comes to face to face personal interaction.  Figure it out and proceed accordingly.  


Walk good,
#TeamWISY


 

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