I recently crossed the line with my friend who is married. We went to happy hour, got tipsy and kissed. I know his wife well and sometimes I hang out with them. To be honest, I don't feel bad about it. Kissing him felt like it was something we both wanted for a long time. I asked him to come home with me but all of a sudden he got a conscience and remembered his wife. I want to take it further. I think we were meant to be a couple but he is acting like he barely knows me now. I feel hurt by this. Honestly, I feel petty and I'm considering telling his wife. I know I shouldn't but this man all of a sudden has my heart. What should I do?
Signed,
Want My Friend
WISY's Response:
Dear WMF,
You "crossed the line" - your words, not mine. So, you know you're trespassing on property you shouldn't be on. I suggest you head back over to where you're supposed to be in the friend zone.
Your friend made a mistake; yes, he probably liked you a little more than a friend; yes, he probably should've avoided being in a vulnerable situation with you, but at the end of the day, he rejected your offer. That means he's not willing to leave his marriage for you. Snap out of this fantasy you've created and come to terms with reality.
You can blame this nonsense on the alcohol. The bottle tends to make everything seem right. If he couldn't steal your heart while you were both sober then it's all an intoxicated version of reality. In other words: issa lie!
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
You should repent you reckless, wanton woman. Leave that married man alone cause the truth is you wanted that man and used alcohol as a means to get him as his guard was down but he remembered his vows. You have no right to feel anything but shame. Tell his wife if you want, I hope he told her already and she chin checks you. Go find a life of your own.
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