I have a confession. I have never had an orgasm from a man; I have only had them from toys. I have been with my man now for 6 years and we are getting married soon but I always fake my orgasms with him.
I am not sure I want to marry him because he does not know how to satisfy me and I don't think I should settle. He wants to take my body and make a baby and all that and I don't get satisfaction. It's not fair.
Am I supposed to tell him about his sex or is it something I should live with? I have never complained to him because I do not want him to feel disrespected. Am I the only one who has this issue?
Signed,
Faker
WISY's Advice:
Dear Faker,
Six years and never satisfied? Not even once? 😳
I don't understand how expressing your needs could come off as disrespect. I could understand if you said you want to avoid hurting his feelings but this is far from disrespect. Please let me know if I'm overlooking any cultural traditions which deem this as disrespect.
It absolutely IS NOT something you should live with. First, you need to learn your body and what positions will bring your sexual arousal to its peak. Next, you need to educate your man about your body. You need to show him where your trigger areas are, when to touch them and how to touch them. Once you begin to explore this, you will surely have a better chance at reaching climax and hopefully, each time thereafter will be better than the last.
Get started working on it now and be mindful that patience on both of your parts will serve you well. By the time your honeymoon comes around, you'll be a happy camper.
Here's something that may help you:
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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If you don't tell him how will he know? You are a special kind of stupid.
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