I had to do something I'm not proud of and now I'm may possibly lose someone who means the world to me. Okay, I've been cheating on my man for over a year with his cousin - cousin as in his mama's sister's child! He grew up with his cousin and they're only a few months apart so we were always hanging out together.
His cousin used to have a girlfriend and they broke up. He took the break up real hard and he stayed with us most nights. Since he was practically living with us, he got to see how my man rejects me sometimes when I want to make love. One night my man went to sleep early and I was hot and heated, I needed some affection and I was vocal about it. He started complimenting me and one thing led to the next. We quietly made love on the couch and it was the best I had ever had.
It's been over a year and I don't know if my man notices that I don't beg him for sex anymore; his cousin is handling all my sexual needs. The cousin is starting to give my man attitude and wants me to be with him. He says he loves me and is willing to risk it all but I'm not. I love my man and I want to continue to be with him.
I need to know how to let his cousin down lightly AND get suggestions on how I can get my man to give me the attention I need. Please help.
Signed,
All in the Family
Dear All in the Family,
At this point you might as well go be with the cousin. If you've been able to creep with him for over a year then that says you don't love or respect your man. Do him a favor and excuse yourselves from his life. Poor guy doesn't even know he's got two snakes right under his roof.
If you're really not into the cousin then you should stop leading him on. Stop sleeping with him immediately. He was in a vulnerable space when you first slept together and he's mistaking this situation for love. He's just happy to have someone fill the void his girlfriend left.
I don't have much else to say here.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
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Yes wisey she needs to just be with the cousin at this point.
ReplyDeleteMa'am,karma is a bigger bitch than you. Your heartache is not far behind. You "had" to, girl bye.
ReplyDeleteBabe.. I understand. First, let the cousin know that his sex was great and you only did it because your man took you for granted. That doesn't mean you don't love your man. Ask him to be a stud and don't say anything to your man or anyone else. Try to hook him up with your pretty friend. The cousin has to stop coming over. Stop having sex with him. Go on a trip with your man and try to rekindle something.
ReplyDeleteWhy do people use Karma as some kind of revenge bulldog? Just live your life.