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Dear WISY,
I'm a little embarrassed to be writing about this but I really need to know if there's something wrong with me. Okay, I think I'm addicted to sex. I think about it all day and all night and my boyfriend is starting to get angry with me because of it. I just lost my virginity two months ago and ever since the first time, I can't get enough. I waited a long time to do it and I regret wasting all that time. It is the best feeling in the world. I want to feel it all the time but my boyfriend can't give it to me so I've been cheating on him. :-(
I cheated with a guy I met on my lunch break, I cheated with a coworker, I cheated with my brother's best friend, I cheated with a guy in my class and I'm about to cheat again with a guy I met online. I like the different ways the guys do it, I like the way they touch my body, I like it even when I don't orgasm. I don't know if that makes sense.
Please tell me if I'm okay. I haven't told anybody about this and I have a feeling they won't get me if I do. I don't feel bad about cheating either. I feel that my boyfriend should give me what I need. If he did, I'd have no reason to cheat on him.
Signed,
Loving the D
WISY's Response:
Dear Loving the D,
Wow. I can't give you an evaluation and diagnosis if that's what you're looking for. I can, however, give you my opinion. In my opinion, I think there's nothing wrong with a woman loving sex. I'm glad you enjoy it so much since so much of us don't. There's something very liberating when a woman can express her love for something in such a way that is traditionally reserved for men. HOWEVER, when you start cheating on your boyfriend to fulfill your need, I would say there is a problem. I can only hope that this love for the D doesn't interfere with your every day life and I hope with all my heart that you're being safe during your romps.
I'd like to know the frequency of this urge for sex. Is it distracting you? Have you noticed a difference in your regular habits? Does it compromise your morals? If you answer yes to any of those questions, I would seek out some professional help. You may need to curb that appetite a bit.
Continue to love sex but don't let it get the best of you.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
WISY cannot give you a diagnosis, but I can: ma'am, you are not ok. You sound like a person who love chocolate cake they begin stealing it to satisfy the sweet tooth. You are cheating and your problem is your lack of remorse, not your slackness screwing everything that have life while you have a boyfriend. Your boyfriend is one person, who has other things to tend to other than your perpetual fire down below. I suspect if he keeps you and your wandering crotch, he too will have a fire down below since you lack the necessary self control to be in a committed relationship. Don't worry, your appetite should diminish to reasonable levels once the newness and excitement of it wears off, but hopefully by then your boyfriend realizes how unscrupulous you are and will have dumped your cheating ass.
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DeleteGot a little taste and now you're a nympho! Get it in but protect yourself and break up with your man to!
ReplyDeleteThe problem is not your thirst, it's you being in a relationship. I am assuming that you're between 18 and 23. You're young and the D is like Crack now and you need it a lot. Remember, you also have to be selective with your partners. Choose guys who won't spread your business or ones worth nothing. Your P*&&¥ is precious too. You also have options. You can introduce yourself and your boyfriend to swing clubs and parties. They are all over and more popular than you might think. Go there and get your belly-full and your bf will get his share of punani. That way you don't have to sneak around and cheat. Check www.sls.com. Contact me if you want to go to some private ones. Most of all, be safe.
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