I'm writing to ask what you think I should do. I've been involved with three men for the past 6 months and I'm getting serious with all of them. Also, when I'm with each one, it feels as if he's my one and only. I don't feel like I could let any one of them go. I am not having protected sex with any of them and I'm not on birth control and I've found myself in a nightmare.
I'm pregnant and I don't know who the father is. I know that it's my own fault this happened and I know you will probably come down hard on me but I really need to know what I can do. I'm not going to have an abortion because I don't believe in that so I know I have to face the music and tell these men what I've been doing. I really hope I don't lose them all in the process. I hope they all stick by me until the baby is born and a DNA test is complete. How do I begin to approach this? I'm so nervous.
Signed,
3 Men, 1 Baby
Dear 3 Men, 1 Baby,
I think it's unrealistic to hope they all stick around after you reveal you've been playing them. Realistically, you should prepare for an onslaught of turmoil and you should be thinking of how you can remain as stress free as possible throughout all of it for the sake of your unborn baby.
I'm sure you already know better but I'll still reiterate that you should protect yourself in your future relationships. I know the issue at hand is a pregnancy but you've also put these three men at risk to be exposed to STDs. Be more responsible; there's too much disease floating around for you to be behaving the way you do.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
I'm just gonna start with what you need to do. You need to get yourself a team of psychiatrists that enjoy a challenge because NONE of these men are inclined to stay with you after you've been running around on each of them. Sit them down individually or in a group and tell them straight what the situation is, was and will be.
ReplyDeleteYou were not nervous when you were living recklessly so don't be nervous now. Put on your big girl panties and prepare thineself for a bumpy ride. Be glad that pregnant was all you got too cause many diseases today are drug resistant. Get a full panel and hope for the best.
Sorry if I'm being too direct.... but you're crazy!!! You need to brake up with all 3 guys and when the baby is born you figure out which one is the father.
ReplyDelete3 Men unprotected?? You're lucky that you're only pregnant and not treating a sickness. Speaking of sickness...go get your head checked because it sick!
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