Disapproving Mom

Dear WISY,

I'm extremely disturbed by a parent at my daughter's school.  She drops her daughter off wearing short shorts and no bra under her shirt so you can see her nipples.  She flirts with all the male teachers and is always drinking some mystery liquid from her on-the-go coffee mug.  I'm pretty sure there is something stronger than coffee in the mug.

I'm a very blunt person and she's aware of my feelings towards her.  The problem is, my daughter really likes her daughter and was very hurt when she wasn't invited to her birthday party.  If it were up to me, my daughter would have nothing to do with them at all but children are innocent and I believe as adults, we should put our feelings aside.

So, with all that being said, should I confront this lady about excluding my princess from the birthday party or will it cause more friction?  

Thanks for your help.

Signed,
Don't Exclude My Princess

WISY's Response:

Dear DEMP,

Please don't go causing any more issues with the lady.  Yes, children are innocent but she knows that if she invites your daughter, she's inviting you too.  And if you feel so strongly about this woman's behavior, it's probably best that your daughter not be around her.

Perhaps, you can sit down with the lady and express your concerns in a civil manner instead of complaining about your daughter not being invited to a birthday party.  Maybe you will discover that she is in fact drinking coffee and doesn't wear a bra because it's her right not to.  You may discover that you were all wrong about her - who knows.  Hopefully, you can resolve your issues.

Walk good,
#TeamWISY