I found out recently that my man has been cheating on me. He met a girl and he told her all about me and she decided that she still wanted to be with him. Well, I guess things got messy because I found out about it. I would leave him high and dry but I just found out I am 4 months pregnant. I decided to confront the girl and let her know and instead of getting upset and leaving my man alone, she said she could not wait to go baby shopping for her step son or daughter. I would have kicked her ass right there but I'm pregnant so I don't want to risk anything.
I don't know how to get rid of this girl. She keeps calling my man and texting him. She has no respect for me at all. I believe he goes out with her now that I am not in the mood to go anywhere. She just won't leave my man alone! Doesn't she see that I am pregnant for him? She should be ashamed of herself for holding on to a taken man. How can I get rid of this pain in my ass? I can't stop crying.
Signed,
Wifey
WISY's Response:
Dear Wifey,
Sorry to hear you are in such a stressful situation while pregnant, however I need you to snap out of it and come to your senses. This girl will not leave your man alone unless your man tells her to leave him alone. I see you have been confronting this girl but have you confronted your man? Have you told him that you won't stand for his infidelity? Before you go blaming the other woman (as many women love to do), make the man take responsibility for his actions. She could never become an issue for you unless your man allowed and welcomed it.
Go talk to your man and let him know that this situation isn't healthy for you nor the baby. If he doesn't stop the madness, let him go. He obviously doesn't respect you.
Walk good,
#TeamWISY
Why you women always blame the other woman? I will never understand that. Girl you need to say bye to that man and his woman because that's what she is. He is going out with her and you are home. You r now the side chick.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you WISY! Women tend to go after the "other woman, who has no obligation to them, rather than dealing with the man who should paying them the deserved respect.
ReplyDeleteWow. U r beyond stupid. I hope that dum behaviour doesn't pass down to the baby.
ReplyDeleteThe girl is not the one that should be respecting you its your man hes the one that has no respect for you. And once he found out you was going to have his child he should have ended things with that girl.now you should respect yourself and leave!!!
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